and yes - i am doing well- this kind of thing just a few weeks ago would have had me crying for hours, posting here like a maniac, etc etc
It's so great to notice those moments and be proud of yourself. I am so happy to not be in the place I was even if I'm not in the place I want to be.
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h makes a point NOT to cake-eat - to the extreme - very frustrating. he even considers enjoying any small time with us as cake-eating and gets himself out of it as soon as he realizes what he's doing.
We are married to the same man...I think there's laws against this! LOL
I think he uses this self righteous I'm in a relationship now and we have to have very very clear boundaries to keep his blinders on so he doesn't have to look at his feelings...I think that's why Cheryl said to flirt and seduce..it's just coaxing him into spending time together.
