Well, now my curiosity is up...wonder why he was in the woods last night? Was he looking for the hole Alice's hole so that he could tumble down into Wonderland?
He must have been very concerned about the ticks or he wouldn't have asked you to check his head. He's lucky he didn't get chiggers! LOL!
Your sense of humor is keeping you sane. I wonder what would happen if you purchased a brand new toothbrush and set it right beside his?
Hang in there. Your man child is craving attention from "mom".
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.