Don't assume that she's having fun all on her own... this hurts the WAS just as much.

I feel your pain, I really do. All the more reason to get your head in a better place. Take what we say and apply it. We've been there. It will get better for you... I know that's hard to see right now. But it will.

Hugs to you!

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.