from the WAS to being walked away on

[strongerthanever]

KD

were you a was? Have been reading some of your posts and was suprised to see that you are afraid to work on your marriage.

Me too.

Just not sure how to get over it. I know not to take H actions personally, even if they are directed at me. I BELIEVE a big ingredient is accepting the not so good and praising the good (should WAS want to reconcile)

BUT...what if you feel like you are sacraficing needs that are important to you? Like truly being appreciated, loved, a priority? Does this DB stuff mean shoving those emotonial needs in your back pocket and just surviving off of them being back? No one wants crumb cake.

I am afraid too. Really afraid. You would think after all the pain we have endured our heart would just scream out "enough!" and magicly turn off any love for them.

My heart and my head seem to have a mind of their own, seldomly agreeing with one another...