Feeling good tonight. My session went well with the T. I feel like he's going to be a good fit for us. I told him all of my concerns and what I was really looking for by going to therapy and he was very much on the same page. I told him that I wasn't interested in doing couples therapy until H was able to fully commit to me and cut off his R with OW. He said he was going to mention doing separate sessions tonight but I had beat him to the punch. He was impressed at how much direction and thought I had already put into this.
I feel like I'm pretty on top of this. I can't even imagine where I'd be if it weren't for these forums. Everyone's advice has been incredibly helpful and I feel like I'm ahead of the game in a way.
When my session was over I scheduled a session for H next week. Then I texted H to see if he was willing to go alone and his response was "I most certainly will."
It brought a smile to my face. I like that he's being so willing to take this on with me. It shows that he's trying and that's all I can ask right now.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
