Yes, amends and repairs, at least atm, with his family and S...
Originally Posted By: zig
his best line - 'zig is doing so well and is so happy, that it's better if i stay away because i made her so miserable'
This is depression talking. Standard, underlying current of MLC.
Originally Posted By: zig
so are you saying it IS a good thing to be open and available to him during this?
BUT...
i shouldn't really see this as a positive thing?
c'mon now, be nice and play - i want less obscurity here - i'll take it on the rocks, no cotton wool, please.
again...
See his movement (those little things) as positive...
Be open to him... leaving the door open... is appropriate... and leave it open... he may need to peek in... leave... come in... leave again... he will need to feel safe...
Not saying you don't need to... you do, too...
Just keep your expectations at zero... people will warn you to be wary that he will cake eat. That's a fairly standard MLC trait.
I'm not sure it's cake eating. I don't think that an MLCer is trying to have the best of both worlds. Because they really do not know what they want.
When they finally do... that's when it might be cake eating...
