swimming with turtles and some guidance

[zig]

You do not know if he said that to your friend as a rationalization and "the right thing" to say...

he also told it to a friend of his in march - in much more detail . that friend and i hadn't had any contact in a few years, but then we reconnected after that and she told me told me about the whole conversation.

that he's at least attempting to take ownership and make amends and repairs...

you seeing something that i can't see? - amends repairs to whom - oh, do you mean his family and s?

his best line - 'zig is doing so well and is so happy, that it's better if i stay away because i made her so miserable'


Being open and available to him to allow that...

A good thing...

But...

MLC takes time... much time... and the only way past it is through it...

Your choice to see this as positive...


i'm noticing your new , rather poetic writing style lately, kd. a bit too cryptic for me!!

so are you saying it IS a good thing to be open and available to him during this?

BUT...

i shouldn't really see this as a positive thing?

c'mon now, be nice and play - i want less obscurity here - i'll take it on the rocks, no cotton wool, please.

zig