Well I didn't have to bring up plans to W. D did it. She asked W if she wanted to go. I had already invited some of my family but none of them could make it so D wanted someone else to go with us and she asked W. W told her she wasn't going. I could tell W was bothered by that. I just left it alone. I told D that it would be fun with just us. W was there and was a little concerned. W said she didn't know I was still planning on going. I told her that I thought it would be fun so I was doing it. Not sure what will happen but I'm fine either way. If W goes fine, if not me & D will have fun. I really am ok with it. Wasn't earlier today but I am now.
By the way, W came home early from work because she was t feeling well. Told me she was going to lay down while I finished making my dinner before I had to leave. I had planned on being done before she got home. So I said fine. I made dinner for D and myself. We ate and cleaned up & watched a little TV. I left a little dinner for W in the fridge in case she felt up to it. W woke up and watched a little TV with us. I told D I had to go. W was asking "oh do u have an appt" I said yes. She knows I'm seeing a counselor. Told her yes And I just left. Felt good.