You seem to be blaming everything on your wife and even call yourself the perfect husband. Do you really think that's the case? If so there is probably not much anyone here can help you with.
What did you do to contribute to the running of the household other than work a job outside the home?
How did you show your W you loved her?
How did you show your sons your love them? Maybe your son spending more time at someone else's house should be a wake-up call for you. Maybe it's not discipline he needs so much as love from his dad.
This is hard stuff and without being open to looking deep inside yourself and figuring out what you need to change, you will lose not only your marriage, but the R with your sons.
If you're done with the M, that's fine but you can never be done with your kids. They didn't ask to be put in the crappy situation, they deserve better.
What did you do to contribute to the running of the household other than work a job outside the home?
Maintain the house, yard and vehicles and the outside family tasks. I wasn't to good at anything else before(giving attention and discipline)
How did you show your W you loved her?
I thought before by, providing income and helping out around the house only.
How did you show your sons your love them? Maybe your son spending more time at someone else's house should be a wake-up call for you. Maybe it's not discipline he needs so much as love from his dad.
This is one that is going to take some time but S12 is starting to notice and is connecting more each week. This at least is showing signs of moving forward.
M44 / W43 Married 24 / Together 24.5 S12 S7 ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012 Counseling started 5-1-2012 Counseling ended 6-7-2012
