Results of confronting the other guy?

[chatterbug]

so she gives you the carrot. then she gives you the stick.

Why don't you just give her the attorney's phone number and leave it at that.

And if she asks/demands/offers any legal , financial , precedence items.

Reply " That is best left between our Attorneys."

Why do you ask her how she is doing?

You know where it is going to lead towards.

Next time communicate to her business like. Stuff like Attorney contact info should be dealt with right away. When we are saying keep conversations to a minimum we do not mean to be passive aggressive or just full out ignore her.

If its important you reply with respective answer that is 100% accurate and answers the question exactly ( think like your taking to a boarder guard )

If its a leading emotional item. Then ignore or say. I will think about it and get back to you ( Then you get back to her within 24 hours )

Treat her with respect in your conversations. Keep out relationship and legal talks. When in doubt do it in writing.