I think you are 100% right about not asking any questions, I've got no desire to do that so no danger there.
The moving out, I agree with you on that and IF and WHEN that conversation comes up again, i'll take a similar line what you said. That way I don't have to worry about leaving my kids and I'm not going to stress about her filing for a D if I won't move out.
I initiated the ML on Saturday and was very direct in saying what I wanted and my W was acting all shy and vulnerable and I took charge and she loves that.
I used to have a real problem with ML because I had these anxious feelings about it not being good and I'd avoid sex, I wish I'd have got help. It was all psychological as I really enjoy ML now.
I think because I said what I wanted and was direct, it was assertive and decisive and this works.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
