Mac I will have to get caught up again on everything in your life. Serenity's 2x4's are always good.
You need to decide if you want to be validated for your lack of actions vs. us tossing some truth darts at you so you can get moving forward again.
I would recommend you go get some free council from a lawyer. Just so you know what you will need to do if you do need one.
How self centered did you get the past year?
What habits did you repeat from the first time around?
But you know the rule.
Do not say you have changed, will change, will not change.
Just live your life like you wished you should. And eventually it will become reality.
She gave you a big 2x4 to stop with your crappy behavior. And it worked.
Crisis has caused you to start changing again.
But do you realize that your wife has to cause crisis each time for you to listen to what she is saying. And this is the 2nd time in three years.
Add in the accident and her wanting a family.
You primary goals here should be to.
1. Stop repeating history. 2. Learn to listen and communicate. 3. Learn to be upbeat and confident. 4. Learn how to be nice and not clingy.
Your hot choc...
All you had to say was that your putting the kettle on and making tea. Can I get you something? No. Well goodnight. or Yes. Ok I will leave it on the counter for you. Goodnight.
If you work it out this time. You two need to learn to communicate. As your system is not working.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
