And a final thought. I went through a stack of pictures - all with time stamps and in not one of them can I see anything but a smiling couple in any of them at any time before the "bump".
Planing it? My W? I think not.
An awful lot can be hidden behind what we perceive as an innocent smile.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~