I already had made plans for the 3rd. They included W. they were made about a month ago. I had asked her if she wanted to go to a concert and get a hotel. All plans included D. W seemed excited. She then changed her mind. I told W maybe I would just take D. She said it was up to me. Things then started going south. W wanted to spend less time together and she became more detached. Well then her cousin passed away and she has started to come back a little. So, I would like to let her know she is still invited but I don't want her to think I am pushing. She has told me she feels alone. But, I thought that is what she wanted. I did tell her she's not alone, that me & D are still here. We have gone on to vacations as a family, so Im sure I could handle the time together without pushing her and just enjoying the vacation. I just don't want to seem pushy by inviting her. Also, I feel that if I just go with D it will show her that I am living life and she can see what she's missing. See my dilemma?
