Regarding where you post next, I think that is entirely up to you. One could argue that you are a newcomer to "divorce" so you could easily stay here. Or not. The choice is yours. You'll get support no matter what. And there are different posters over there they may provide different help and support that you need.
My best advice for you right now is to continue to focus on you and the things that have been bringing you happiness these past several months.
I have found that when you stop looking over your shoulder, things in front of you have a way of getting your attention.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
