W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

I will not label her but I will be not turn a blind eye either. I have a no expectations at this point. I agree that WAS can have similar symptoms but her symptoms have been going on since before our marriage and I was to blind to see it due to my own issues. Doctor themselves are hesitant to apply such labels. That's what so great about the book as it advises the same thing to not diagnose someone either but ignoring it is not the answer either. BPD is very hard for even a professional to ascertain as indicated by the book. I will continue to learn more as my journey continues.