Oh hi Amada - I just realized I was in sofiedaphne's bootcamp and hijacked it. I am sorry I came across as accusing you, and it probably is kind of an accusation, so I see that. If I weren't struggling with the same thing (both the tidiness and the overarching question of changing for someone) I wouldn't have felt so free to share my experience. And that's all it is, my experience. We can take it up in my thread or yours if you want to, but I sympathize with how much you've tried. I feel empowered to change anything I don't like about myself now, and I wish you did too. Best regards, Ad.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
