One other thing...I have read (and my W proves it to me) that women take a lot longer to believe a change is real (rather than just a tactic) than men do...so something that you believe is real say within a month, your W might not believe is real until 6 months...just a heads up...
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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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