I agree with Bug, sounds like an awesome opportunity, go!! And take your time deciding what is best for you concerning the papers. What will feel better in SF, having it over with or not? You know yourself best.
I guess I wonder too if you feel as if there is anything unsaid or left to say w/ W before the day?
((( )))
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13