Val, I would say take the job, fly back when you need to. Making a decision that is pressured by time is never a good thing for me.

Congratulations on the job! Sounds fantastic.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss