About the crying on his shoulder...maybe you should try it.

You know I've been reading a lot on unconditional love because it was such a foreign concept to me. The definition is so simple: caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. But it is hard to put into practice.

Your h is still in the home with you, still communicating with you. I think it's definitely worth working on showing him that kind of love and maybe you will get it in return.

If not, you learned something about yourself and your ability to love.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss