I am focusing on the 180's in the controlling dept. when W's "friend" called my D and I both saw it come up on her phone. I didn't react at all. D did. And she asked who it was. I said nothing. I have not been asking W at all what she has been up to on her off nights from D. Also when W spends $ or needs something I tell her it's no problem. Trying to stay strong. I don't want her to move out. I don't think she wants to either. But I'm not really sure what she wants. I don't think she knows either. She did tell me about a month ago that she didn't want a divorce or to split up the family but felt that this is what she had to do. Maybe she will come around. I hope so.…
