I don't think you have to move.

So sorry that you had to receive the news in that way. Must have been very discouraging.((()))

But as most say, it's just a piece of paper and you proved that. You were carrying on your life, no change from day to day not even knowing you were D.

You've changed a lot of things about yourself since the bomb and I think that it resonates in your calm, measured, consistent approach to life now.

You now know what it takes to have a real relationship and how to avoid some of the pitfalls you found before.

When we know better we do better.

Good luck, Kolja and keep posting. Gunny still comes back and posts.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss