I've only read this page but from what I've read, it seems like we're in the same place in our situations. When Busto was talking, I felt like he was talking to me. I'm going to need to catch up on your thread... wow.

I hope you're doing well. Constant struggle everyday, isn't it?

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.