This is not looking good! (Long post...)

[jks]

Start by respecting what she wants right now. That is showing her love... whether you believe it or not, it is. Don't focus on what you don't have... i.e. not being able to express these 5 Love Languages with her, etc. Focus on what you do have. How can you be a better you for ANYONE that you get to be married to?

I don't know if I saw this or not, but what was it that your W had complaints about in your relationship? Are these things that you're addressing? That's a good place to start...