So, I post here now?

[kolja]

Hey all. I've been posting in the Newcomers forum

here

and here

and current thread

After wondering for a while why I hadn't heard anything from the court where my wife had filed, I happened to find a letter from the court in the street mailbox (never use that address) offering a copy of the decree for $15. So, we're officially FORMER spouses, though it really doesn't change that much on my end (other than having to report it for my security clearance, and disenrolling her as a military dependent). I'm still hopeful we'll eventually have another chance, but in the meantime have been going about life - and day to day life is pretty decent...