Just read through your entire thread and overall I think you're doing very well based off of what you've shared. Continue to vent here and try not vent to your W when times get tough.

I'm glad that you have a great support group. And I'm glad that you're being a great father to your D right now. She definitely needs you at this difficult time.

You stated that your W's biggest complaint about you has been that you're too controlling. Can you elaborate more on this? Give specific examples of things that happened so we can better understand?

I'm noticing in a lot of your posts that you talk a lot about what your W is saying to you on a daily basis but I haven't really heard you talk a lot about your past relationship with each other. How you got here and what specific things you're doing to change that behavior...

Am I making sense? It helps us better help you if we understand more background about you and your W and the behavior between the two of you.

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.