good signs, bad signs, or nothing at all

[confusedfather]

Tried to talk to her about the kids tonight. Turned into a big fight. I admit I made some comments I probably shouldn't have, but i feel more of a responsibility to the kids than her. I feel very strongly that she cannot just run out, knowing there is OM out there, and try to pull my kids into her fantasy, which will be their nightmare. I even made the comment that her decisions are all about her, with no consideration for the kids. I can't help but feel I slammed the door on our divorce, but i have to make sure the kids are a priority for at least one of us. We have never communicated well, and I tend to say what i think when I feel strongly about something.