Unfortunately, you may be looking into her actions too deeply. So many LBS's are looking for something, ANYTHING that looks like things are turning around and they want that "quick fix." You have to know that this is going to take A LOT of time. PATIENCE is the key.
Believe me on this.
Noticing little babysteps of positive interaction is fine... but take it for what it is. A babystep.
Originally Posted By: Lost2272
She still wants a divorce. Anyone here get back with S after getting divorced?
Remember, believe nothing of what they say. Do you know how many times my H has told me he wants to get divorced? And do you know how many times I've asked him "are you sure this is what you want?" In which his response was, yes.
As of today... he has not filed, he has seen changes in me that he likes, he wants to end his R with OW and move towards working on our M.
Just know that your W is confused. She feels that this is what she wants right now based on how she's feeling RIGHT NOW... so RESPECT THAT.
Continue to do things that make you happy and independent. And do it for yourself.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
