This is not looking good! (Long post...)

[jks]

Do you have hobbies that you've let go by the wayside? What is it about yourself that you like?

This is coming from a person who had very low self-esteem when my whole sitch started. Some of the things that have helped push me out of that "funk" is focusing on my strengths. What makes me special? What is it that I'm extremely good at?

I've said this on other threads but I think it's important to focus on your strengths along with building up your weaknesses at this time.

And if you can find people in your area that share the same hobby, then all the better because you can make plans to do them together. Just no one-on-ones with women, I say... that's just opening another door of confusion and making things 10 times more complicated. I say this from experience as well.