I think since I'm going to be able to meet with the T alone tomorrow, I'll have more of a chance to go over all of my concerns and explain to him what my goal is. I want to talk to him about solution oriented thinking and, yes, I agree... I don't want future sessions to be about beating up H. In fact, I don't know if I want to meet with the T anymore with the H. I actually think it would benefit him MORE to go on his own for right now.
He has a lot of things he needs to work through and he probably wants to work through it without me pressuring him. Which I totally get. If and when H is totally ready to R, then I think it would be a better idea to start the counseling sessions together then. Yes?
I agree with all of this. you both need to work on yourselves first before you can work on you two as partners.
Have your game plan and follow it closely.
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