I think since I'm going to be able to meet with the T alone tomorrow, I'll have more of a chance to go over all of my concerns and explain to him what my goal is. I want to talk to him about solution oriented thinking and, yes, I agree... I don't want future sessions to be about beating up H. In fact, I don't know if I want to meet with the T anymore with the H. I actually think it would benefit him MORE to go on his own for right now.
He has a lot of things he needs to work through and he probably wants to work through it without me pressuring him. Which I totally get. If and when H is totally ready to R, then I think it would be a better idea to start the counseling sessions together then. Yes?
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
