good signs, bad signs, or nothing at all

[confusedfather]

We will tell them together and i will never tell them this was their mothers idea. I am rethinking the custody agreement and think for the sake of the kids I am going to be a little more aggressive. She hasn't thought through any of the kids stuff, like supervision of them during the summer. I initially played nice, thinking agreeable would help me down the road if she changed her mind, but my kids are more important than my marriage. This is about to get ugly, but I think it is necessary.