sometimes people hurt others before they can get hurt themselves as a sort of proactive manuever
I agree with this. My MC thought that H came up with the idea of D because he missed me so much while I was out of the country that he never wanted to go through that again and could avoid it by choosing to break up with me.
I guess it makes sense in a messed up sort of way!
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13