good for you vera - you really are staying grounded .

the conversation you described over being the dishwasher - same pattern here.

what i'm finally learning is to just be quiet and not say anything. i always offered my opinion before and it always took us down a bad road.

now i'm learning that he doesn't want my opinion - even if he asks for it - i really don't think he wants it!!

good for you about the gal tonight. they are just doing their thing - and we should focus on doing ours

have fun tonight

zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
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BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"