This all sounds very much like you are the victim in this.
Do you think you look or act like that man your W would be a fool to leave.?
What can you do to change that?
I do feel that I'm the perfect husband for our family but have failed to show that in the past. Lately W has no feelings for me. She says she is happy now, but does things to push my buttons (like this afternoon while S12 and I were at the movie theater, she just piled my washed clothes on the bed and stated that since I didn't keep all my socks right side out, she wasn't folding my clothes anymore.)She knows I don't like wrinkley shirts. W also stated that the question last night for sex made her mad. I replied, "it just a question and it didn't bother me that she said no." Then she said "you are going to have to go to someone else instead, because I'm not going to have sex with you ever again."
M44 / W43 Married 24 / Together 24.5 S12 S7 ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012 Counseling started 5-1-2012 Counseling ended 6-7-2012