Oh Wendy. It sounds so idyllic, and peaceful. You paint a lovely picture of the sailing. I'm glad that your S has been able to open up with you. Proves that even adult children are affected by parental S/D. My S is also very communicative with me, but he says that it's between H and I, but I know he's feeling it too, as are my daughters.
Sometimes, I wish I could "blow" up my M, and see where the pieces land.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim