sorry, bug. their anger is so hard to take. it's especially hard when you haven't done anything to deserve it other than exist on the same planet (or so it seems).
he will just have to work it out, himself, or let you know what the problem is. from what i've been reading in the book about codenpendency, codependent people are people (like me) who "let other people's moods control their emotions..."
the author goes on to say, "if my husband is happy, and i feel responsible for that, then i'm happy. if he's upset, i feel responsible for that, too. i'm anxious, uncomfortable, and upset until he feels better."
your husband's attitude and feelings are his own choice and his own to deal with. you are not responsible for his choices and his feelings or his behavior. if he's rude, it's because he's rude, not because you are breathing the same oxygen he's breathing.
(((bug)))
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
