I went at first to the Priest in charge of our parish.. he didn't offer much advice or help other than he would "talk" to W... that was over a month ago now... no talk has occurred...
went to Second priest in Parish and he seemed genuinely concerned, gave me his cell number and asked me to make an appointment, and come see him... I called last Monday and made an appointment... the VERY next day, he called me back and said that because W worked at church with him he would be unable to speak with me at all... citing "conflict of interest"
he sent me to priest #3 who was even less help and actually ruined my good day by letting me know that M was over and I couldn't "make" her love me...
I thought they were supposed to be advocates of marriage... that has me down...
either way, I won't file for D so will keep waiting, hoping and praying that God's Will be done in this sitch... I'm trying VERY hard to have faith, and believe that we can reconcile in time... I have my good days and my bad...
M:40 W:31 S:8 S:5 D:8(prev. relationship) Bomb dropped: 5/10/12 It's not you it's me MO: 6/1/12 T:14 M:9