I am trying to keep the faith, but men of God keep letting me down. What was your expectation around what they would say? And just because they have an opinion, doesn't mean you have to agree with them.
Things sometimes do look very bleak, I'm going through a bit of that this weekend myself. So I find helpful things to do and read (I've re-read parts of DR) and try not to mindread ("I have to wonder, if the situation were reversed and I had been the one that walked out on my marriage, would they be beating down my door and ringing my cell to "talk to me"?" ) about things I will never find the answers to.
I'm sure you've heard this here before-You acted your way into this so you have to act your way out of it.
Don't expect others to get your out of it.
That doesn't mean you have to do something. Sometimes it means you just have to let things unfold without putting pressure on your W.
Accuray wrote a great post to mab1 this morning. Look it up.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
