FF00, I think when we are in this sitch, people we think should be supportive are not. It s*cks, believe me I know. Were these priests from two different parishes?
I haven't read up on your sitch, and want to do that before trying to offer any advice. I know you're hurting. Please keep posting here if you don't have any other support system. We will try to help you and be here to listen when you need it.