[quote=Accuray In the course of light conversation, you can mention to her that YOU are going to go to the music festival, and then change the subject and talk about other things you're doing and things that she's doing. If she wants to go to the music festival with you, she'll say so, but in that context, there is no expectation. She is not rejecting you if she doesn't offer to go, and therefore she's not put in the role of being the bad guy. Accuray[/quote]
I agree with this. If you're sure that she'd love to go to this, maybe she'll ask to join you or you'll run into her there.
But if you ask her, you're going to be very disappointed if she says no. I know this, because I've done it myself.
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