Hopeful,

There's nothing in DB that says you have to ignore his affair, nor be willing to be the "other woman" in your own marriage. Good for you for sticking up for yourself -- and for the sanctity of your marriage! My guess is that as you pull away, he will start pursuing you. LET him! You work on Hopeful!


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)