Trusting, I am moving forward as well, and thinking about new family and new happiness. But I continue to read here because somehow, I want to know where these stories wind up. After years of hearing about people's lives, you wonder--how are they? Did the MLC'er ever "wake up?"

I'm glad that I DB'ed. I learned about myself and I can say that I did my best. Maybe it wasn't enough, but it was the best I could do. I have no regrets. I can look at the situation and know that I tried. I can also see the dysfunction in that relationship.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D