It is after midnight here in Hawaii. I am sipping a glass of champagne left over from what my friends brought to the boat.

It was a beautiful sunset sail. I made some most excellent chicken/grape/cranberry salad to share. My oldest son talked the whole way home. His view of me/his dad/him. He is sad about what is happening. And was sadder that he feels more connected to an old family friend who came along for the sail than he does to his own dad.

And then we had a discussion about how each of is only responsible for ourself. Anyway, I am glad my son and I got to spend some time together.

There is a very funny commercial playing on our local radio stations. It says something like:

Have a great 4th of July. And try not to blow yourselves up!

Sounds like great advise!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!