Originally Posted By: sandi2
Moving out might provide physical detaching, but I'm not sure you are going to get what you think. However, your MIL doesn't need to have financial control.

I'm concerned that you are planning all of this and yet you don't know the first thing about setting up your own place. I'm afraid you are bitting off more than you can chew. You need to have a well laid plains in how you will do all of this....and not just jump out there....thinking it will all work out.


Sandi2,
I know what you are saying, and it's nothing I've done before(living on my own).
It is not really what I want to do but I'm stuck in this sitch. Emotionaly I'm pretty good at being detached, other than last night I asked for some sex.
That didn't go well, W said; "Really... You can't be serious".


M44 / W43
Married 24 / Together 24.5
S12
S7
ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012
Counseling started 5-1-2012
Counseling ended 6-7-2012