Yes I know Sandi2 is right. Thank you for the the quick response. I have not heard from her since she texted me early Friday morning. She said she was very frazzled. I don't think she ever thought I would say no.

But not hearing from her I am a little concerned. And I feel extremely guilty. I am responsible for much of what went wrong in the marriage. That is the hard part, I want to rescue her. But that is exactly what I can't do.

She did mention moving back to her parents. I really think that is what she should do for the time being.

Again thanks for everything. This is hard!

Lost in Alaska