XW sent me a curt email saying that D13 (then 11 and 12) was fine, that she was only telling me these things because that's what I wanted to hear, to hear that the divorce was the problem.
Selfish and self-centered. She doesn't want to feel responsible for any bad consequences of the divorce at all, so she convinces herself that she not responsible at all. If it's all you...it's none of her.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
