Hi Mab1,

What resources are you looking for? What do you need help with aside from your DB efforts?

If you have an IC who literally asks you "how does that make you feel" you SHOULD switch right away. Find an IC who is "solution-based". I liked using the DB coaches on this site. The one I worked with said "I don't care how you feel, what are you going to DO?" I liked that.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015