W has found a place and starts moving things out tomorrow. She made up a list of what she wants to take. I honestly don't think she thought it through unless she will just sit on the floor. But i am not going to offer anything. We are going to type up a list of division of property, division of finances, and custody agreement, which we will each sign. Any changes in with one of those agreements will be done as an addendum. If this makes it to a legal separation I thought those papers would be good to have.
Now the part that [censored]. We agreed to tell the kids tomorrow evening. She wanted to wait until she was ready to move in, but i said she needed to tell them before she left, so she is not leaving me to answer their questions and consoling them. Pray for me. I have a feeling this next week will be harder than anything i have faced yet.
M-31, W32 S12, S9, S8, D3 M 12 Years Bomb dropped: 4/30/12 ("I need to be happy") EA discovered: 5/8/12 W denied PA unsure Moved out 7/6/12